Considerate personality

Buddy Personality in Tomodachi Life

How the Buddy personality works in Tomodachi Life (Carer in EU): traits, slider ranges, how to make a Buddy Mii, and compatibility notes.

NA name

Buddy

EU name

Carer

The Buddy personality in Tomodachi Life is the island's dependable friend: steady, caring, and always ready to have someone's back. In the European version of the game, the same type is called Carer, which gets at the same loyal, look-out-for-everyone role it tends to play.

Dependable and caring — always has a friend's back.

Considerate Miis read as friendly, patient, and tuned into other people's moods. They fit characters who should feel gentle, easy to approach, or careful with other residents.

On the Tomodachi Life personality chart, Buddy appears when Movement plus Speech totals 0-3, and Energy plus Attitude totals 8-11. The Overall slider is cosmetic for personality and can be set however you like.

How to make a Buddy Mii

Open the Mii personality settings and adjust Movement, Speech, Energy, and Attitude to the example setup above. You can leave Overall wherever it feels right for the character, because it is not part of the personality calculation.

If the result is close but not exact, check the two totals: M+S should land between 0 and 3, while E+A should land between 8 and 11. The example setup totals M+S 1 and E+A 9.

How the Buddy personality works

The chart places every Mii by two totals. Movement plus Speech (M+S) runs left to right, and Energy plus Attitude (E+A) runs top to bottom, with both totals running from 0 to 15. Buddy sits in the lower-left cell of the Considerate corner, where M+S lands between 0 and 3 and E+A lands between 8 and 11.

Those ranges combine a calm surface with real warmth underneath. The M+S band of 0-3 keeps the Mii slow-moving and polite, so it does not try to lead conversations or compete for attention, while the E+A band of 8-11 adds a steady, relaxed energy that makes it present and attentive. That combination is why Buddy reads as dependable rather than distant: it is not the loudest resident, but it is the one people can count on.

The other three Considerate types differ on those same totals. Daydreamer lifts M+S to 4-7 while keeping E+A at 8-11, which makes it gentler and more unhurried, happy to drift at its own pace. Sweetie stays at M+S 0-3 but raises E+A to 12-15, so it is the softest, most soothing type in the corner. Cheerleader pushes both totals up to M+S 4-7 and E+A 12-15, making it the brighter, more expressive version of the same warmth. Buddy is the corner's steady friend: warm enough to care, practical enough to actually help.

Buddy behavior & traits

In the game, Buddy Miis come across as the residents who notice when someone needs a hand. Community observations describe them as loyal, dependable, and quietly caring — the type who checks on friends, keeps promises, and shows up without needing to be asked. The Considerate group's color direction is built around yellows and pastel oranges, so a Buddy Mii's home tends to sit in that same warm, approachable family.

Speech-wise, Buddy stays at the polite end of the slider, so it listens more than it interrupts and never uses words to push people around. The moderate Energy and Attitude scores keep the delivery warm and easygoing, which fans often describe as the island's emergency contact: steady, supportive, and always good for a snack and a pep talk. The European name Carer reinforces the same reading for PAL players.

Friendship-wise, this site's compatibility data works at the group level: Miis from the same group tend to get along more easily, while pairs from different groups usually need a little more interaction. That makes Buddy an easy friend for Daydreamer, Sweetie, and Cheerleader, and a slightly slower one for types in the Outgoing, Reserved, or Ambitious groups. One honest note: personality shapes how smoothly Miis become friends, but it does not decide romance.

Want the full friendship and romance picture? Read the personality compatibility guide.

How to change to the Buddy personality

  1. 1

    Select the Mii you want to change and open Edit Mii. In Tomodachi Life: Living the Dream, the personality settings live inside the Mii editor.

  2. 2

    Open the personality sliders. You will see Movement, Speech, Energy, Attitude, and Overall.

  3. 3

    Set the four scoring sliders to a working Buddy setup: Movement step 1 (score 0), Speech step 2 (score 1), Energy step 5 (score 4), and Attitude step 5 (score 5).

  4. 4

    Check the two totals before saving. M+S should land between 0 and 3, and E+A between 8 and 11. The example setup above totals M+S 1 and E+A 9.

  5. 5

    Leave Overall wherever you like. It only changes flavor text and quirks, not the personality result.

  6. 6

    Confirm the change. The Mii will save with the Buddy personality, or Carer if you are playing the European version. Remember that other slider combinations inside the same M+S and E+A ranges work too, so this is a reliable setup rather than the only one.

For the full formula and slider mechanics, read the personality slider guide.

Buddy in Tomodachi Life: Living the Dream

Tomodachi Life: Living the Dream is the Switch follow-up to the 3DS original, and it keeps the same 16-personality system. Buddy still occupies the same chart cell — M+S 0-3 with E+A 8-11 — and community comparisons indicate the hidden personality values line up with the 3DS data, so the chart on this site applies to the new game as well.

In the new game, the Buddy personality in Tomodachi Life keeps its dependable, caring reading: a resident who always has a friend's back and makes the island feel a little safer. The regional naming continues too, so the same type appears as Carer in the European version, where the group itself is called Easy-going. Exact animations and dialogue can shift between releases, but the personality result follows the same two totals. As always, this site is an unofficial fan resource, not Nintendo data.

Buddy personality FAQ

What is the Buddy personality in Tomodachi Life?

Buddy is one of the four Considerate personalities in Tomodachi Life. It appears when a Mii's Movement + Speech totals 0-3 and Energy + Attitude totals 8-11, and it reads as dependable, caring, and always ready to have a friend's back. In the EU version the same type is called Carer.

How do I make a Buddy Mii in Tomodachi Life?

Open the Mii editor, go to the personality settings, and set Movement, Speech, Energy, and Attitude to a working Buddy setup such as steps 1, 2, 5, and 5. Keep M+S between 0 and 3 and E+A between 8 and 11, leave Overall anywhere, and confirm. The Mii will save as Buddy (Carer in the EU version).

What slider values give the Buddy personality?

One working setup is Movement step 1 (score 0), Speech step 2 (score 1), Energy step 5 (score 4), and Attitude step 5 (score 5). That totals M+S 1 and E+A 9, which lands inside Buddy's range of M+S 0-3 and E+A 8-11. Other combinations inside the same range work too.

Is Buddy the same as Carer in the EU version?

Yes. Buddy (NA) and Carer (EU/PAL) are the same personality type with the same slider range. Only the displayed name changes depending on the game version.

What personalities are compatible with Buddy?

Buddy gets along most easily with the other Considerate types: Daydreamer, Sweetie, and Cheerleader. Types from other groups can still become friends but usually need more interaction. Personality affects friendship friction only, and it does not decide romance.

Related personalities

Buddy is part of a wider family on the chart. Start with the other three Considerate types, then look at a couple of emotionally warm neighbors from other groups.

See the full Tomodachi Life personality chartAll 16 types →

Other Considerate personalities

Buddy shares the Considerate corner of the chart with three more types. They use the same M+S and E+A range and differ only in where they sit inside the quadrant.

ISFJFans often pair Buddy with ISFJ. See the unofficial MBTI comparison.